Reading the book “Please Understand Me II” has helped me out tell about the person I really am.
I am someone who really goes out of my way to try and please everyone and lend them a hand. I like helping everyone out and involved with numerous volunteer functions. My resume displays numerous volunteer functions from coaching basketball to church functions.I think as guardians we can have a lot of fun with our friends, but we are quite serious about their duties and responsibilities. I take pride in being dependable and trustworthy; if there is a job to be done. I have never understood how people can always show up late to work and not take pride in their job.
I am someone who is always going to show up early for anything if it’s a job, volunteer work, or just hanging out friends for a party.I also believe in law and order, and sometimes worry that respect for authority, even a fundamental sense of right and wrong, am being lost. Perhaps this is why Guardians like I honor customs and traditions so strongly-we are familiar patterns that help bring stability to our modern, fast-paced world. Practical and down-to-earth, Guardians believe in following the rules and cooperating with others. They are not very comfortable winging it or blazing new trails; working steadily within the system is the Guardian way, for in the long run loyalty, discipline, and teamwork gets the job done right.As a Guardian we make up as much as 40 to 45 percent of the population, and a good thing, because we usually end up doing all the indispensable but thankless jobs everyone else takes for granted.
My natural traits are those that employers have traditionally valued- and that successful companies still respect. I am responsible and loyal to an organization once I signed on.In any environment, including my work place, I am usually focused on making people happy and facilitating harmonious relationships. Lyzz Yamanzaki is a therapist who specialize in trauma. Well-known in Japan, Yamanzaki has published several books based on her fourteen years of counseling. One of the books she published was “My Life”.
She explains that you need to believe in yourself in order to bring out your potential. In order to believe in yourself, you need to know your true self. YamanzakiThe book “My Life” begins with a chapter Yamanzaki calls the Introduction, about eighty questions of self-description, such as color of hair and eyes, nickname, daily routine and physical surroundings. These warm-up questions help the reader get in the swing of thinking about self and responding.
These safe, easy questions reveal only the outer self that everyone else already knows. Subsequent chapters cover love, relationships, money, and vision each guiding the reader gently but persistently on a journey of deeper and deeper self-understanding. YamanzakiSocial IQ is a measure of social intelligence compared to other people of their age. A good way to measure Social IQ is to use the basic IQ system, adapted for social skills.
Most people have social IQ’s from 85-115, but many exceed limits. People with social IQs below 80 may have an autism spectrum disorder, such as Asperger syndrome or a severe case of some disorder such as schizophrenia or maybe just generally low in general intelligence. These people may have trouble with making friends, and with communication, and might need some social skill training or extra support from specialists.These people may not be hired as quickly as other people for employment, since they may not have the require interpersonal communication and social skills for success in the workforce.
These people may work well in an office desk job, stay home job or jobs that do not require a lot of interaction, such as construction. People with social IQs over 120 are considered very socially skilled and well adjusted, and could work well with jobs that involve direct contact and communication with people.Bill Gates is one of the most successful entrepreneurs. Time magazines named Gates one of the 100 people who most influences the 20th century, as well as one of the 100 most influential people of 2004, 2005, and 2006. He has been honored throughout the world for his humanitarian efforts, honorary doctorates, and honorary trustee’s.
He is someone that I have really admired and has a genuine heart.
