We are going to discuss about a thing which most of us have been experienced in our life, that is Broken relationship. But before we we go futher, we should understand what is relationship and the types of relationships. Relationship can be defined as the way in which two or more people, groups, countries, etc., talk to, behave toward, and deal with each other Also relationship refers to a romantic or sexual friendship between two people Also the way in which two or more people or things are connected.
Some of the types of relationships are: Ethical relationship is a basic and trustworthy relationship between humans, it is characterized by trust and common protection of each other's body. Honesty is very often a major focus. Interpersonal relationship, this is a relationship characterized by love, solidarity, inference, regular business and other social commitment. Intimate relationship this is an interpersonal relationship which involves emotion. It is characterized by romantic, passionate attachment or sexual activity.‘’Are we gaining or loosing from a broken relationship?’’ Broken relationship can be defined as the termination of an intimate relationship by any means other than death.
The act is commonly termed as "dumping someone" in slang when it is initiated by one partner. Our arguments will be focusing on the intimate relationship, the one which include romantic emotion and sexual interaction. This type of relationship is usually associated with love as it seems to be the influential cause for the engagement. Love refers to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes that ranges from interpersonal affection to pleasure, Also can be defined as an emotion of a strong attraction and personal attachment.
Love is the most profound emotion known to human beings. For most people, romantic relationships are the most meaningful element in their lives. But the ability to have a healthy, loving relationship is not innate. Almost all of us have experienced a failed relationship. Some causes of broken relationship.Lack of trust The first which is lack of trust from either of the two partners can result to crashed relationship because they feel that their partner is not trusted based on the line trust no guy/lady and it can lead to the second reason which is unfaithfulnessFrom any partner can also lead to broken relationships because some partners find it difficult to forget their partners past unfaithfulness when this becomes the case, marrying such a person would be the last thing on their mind, because they feel if they venture into marriage with such a person, he/she might become worst, so they settle for another person instead.
Also another reason for broken relationship because a lady/guy who is recovering from heartbreak due to unfaithfulness from his/her former partner finds it hard so trust anybody else, so their next relationship is always not so good.Keeps someone out of unexpected sexual transmitted diseases A person with less numbers of lovers will have fewer chances to get sexual diseases but a person with many lovers, will have a wide opportunity to get diseases. By having many relations with many people, you can endanger your life since as it currently known the world has changed that a lot of diseases have erupted. So it is better to have a single lover or not at all to be free from unexpected diseases.Reduce unnecessary expenditureOnes a person breaks his or her relationship by another person, all the cost that were incurred before will not be provided again.
For instance for a man who was regularly providing needs to a woman and when such action breaking up occurs, the burden of man to incur costs by a woman will not be tolerated anymore. Help to reduce partners and remove you from sexual networks. Where sexual network may result getting HIV/ AIDS and other sexual disease for example a man or a woman can have more than one girl or boy friend but Once he or she broke up with one of them may help him or her to move out of sexual networks.It encourages someone who is broken up to concentrate in other things which matters in life Such as pursuing his or her career and passion this may be caused by the ego of proving the other wrong side that he l she could do better even without him or her in life Reduce wastage of time.
Love is one of the most obnoxious ways to west your time. You could be doing a million things for yourself and instead you spend all your time taking care of someone who is ungrateful and doesn’t seem to care if he/she hurts you or he/she is killing you inside. Once you break up with your partner it can help a person to spend most of his or her time engage fully in economic activities that can lead to the increase in one’s wealth rather than spending most of your time thinking of love.Restore happiness:When somebody is in love with someone and their relationship is too complicated, this means no peace of mind, no love, no care between them, no good communication thus their relationship breakup gives an ample time to someone to restore happiness and enjoy life with full confidence of life and hence gives a person a morale to work harder and increase his/ her performance in daily life. Gives another chance to love another person.
Once you are abstained from a relationship, it gives you a room to look for another person whom you think he/she is the right person for you. This happens when the terminated relationship was due to the fact that you did not match in the relationship, it was just “not meant to be” relationship or in another way, it was just a clash.Enmity Broken relationship sometimes can end up in a conflict between the partners and thus it may lead to disrespect among them which will result to unnecessary fighting, ether physically or through words of mouth, also enmity can lead to inability of one of the partners to find another partner because of in relevant information that each side of the broken relationship is displaying to the community which surrounds them.Emotional painsPains caused by emotional from a broken relationship are more deeply felt and longer last. This occurs when one of the partner/ obviously the hurt person or sometimes both of the partners feel pains inside their hearts especially when he/she sees the one that has broken up with. These pains can even been seen by relatives, friends and other people around you.
Psychological effectsPsychologists argued that termination of relationship leads to some psychological effects to the partners in the matter of deeply thinking for what each of the partner has lost. After the relationship has broken each of the partner knows something important has left. The occurrence of this situation, cause more effects to the partners like losing memory and sometimes headache as well as mental disability. A normally extroverted cheerful person can start to display lowered feelings of self-esteem and depressions.
This causes the broken partners become sad eventually leading to greater mental problems. There are also increasing in frustrations and feeling of emptiness inside that person as well as chemical changes in the mind and the body too. It may cause deathBroken relationship may cause death to partners if there was a real love existed before. Normally under this situation a partner feels painful that she/he cannot take control to avoid that stress and painful. Because of these non-stopped issues, she/he decided to die by means of hanging, own shoot and the like.
Poor performanceWhen it happens that one of the partner who was fully committed with future ambitions of being with his/ her partner forever and suddenly happens that the relation ended with no reasons it may cause his / her performance in various activities to be low and hence decreasing his/her ability to perform well. Coping with a new partner may be a difficult task.For instance you have invested a lot of time and effort in the relationship. You have spent years getting accustomed to your partner’s way of life, likes, dislikes, habits, temperament, etc.
Any other new relationship will take as much time and effort. There is little chance that another relationship may be the same as the one you admired, most people subconsciously look for someone similar to their first partner but it is difficult to find one.
